I know it isn't every day we think about the person we are married to.  I don't mean thinking about calling them to talk about the kids or finances, I mean really think about how lucky you are.  Yeah I know my husband can do things that bother me and I am sure I do things that really bother him too.  I know if I were hurt or in need of something he would be the first one to make sure I had what I needed.  Just the other day I had started running again.  I ran too much and my shins were killing me.  I told him it was likely because my shoes were old and I needed a different kind of shoe.  He immediately told me to go out and get new ones!   I mean, it is not like we could really afford to spend the money but he wanted me to keep running and to not hurt myself.  I think the reason I am thinking about this is that I spoke with my sister yesterday.  She fell and needed to go to the doctor and her husband wouldn't take her.  I know if that had been me my husband would have dropped everything and taken me directly in.  Sometimes he gets over involved with school, or work, or stuff on the computer but if I come to him and say directly, I need your help he will help, maybe reluctantly sometimes : )  but he will help anyway. I have to say that I know my Hughie loves me dearly and I should feel lucky that I have him.  I should not always concentrate on the negative like I have the tendency to do and focus more on why we got married in the first place.  I should focus on why we fell in love when we were younger and what made me want to find him again.  I know that we have had our problems but I know in the end when it comes right down to it, my husband loves me!!  I wish that for my sister.  I hope that one day she wakes up and sees how wonderful she is and how much she has to offer.....some OTHER man!!!!